Showing posts with label calendars. Show all posts
Showing posts with label calendars. Show all posts

Monday, August 20, 2012

Hidden Curriculum Calendar

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this calendar....we have used it since 2006.  There is one for kids and another for Teens and Older Adults.  I cannot say enough about this calendar and am sure there are other "Hidden Curriculum" items available.

Here are just a few random entries in this page-a-day format.  We had ours on the table and it provided many meal time conversations about appropriate social behavior.

Recess is a time to talk to other kids, run, walk, and play games.  It is okay to ask a teacher if you need help remembering how to try new activities, but it's not a good idea to stand by the teacher all the time at recess.

When you are talking to your teacher, don't necessarily say everything that you are thinking.  For example, if you think your teacher smells like dirty socks, it would be very rude and hurtful to say that to her.  Try to stay on one topic and ask your questions in a calm voice.

If your teacher says "Give yourselves a hand," she is telling the class to clap to congratulate themselves for doing something well.

If someone says, "That drives me crazy," that doesn't mean she is being driven anywhere.  It usually means the person is very frustrated with what is happening.

Just because something is on TV does not mean it is true.  Talk to your parents about things you see in commercials or TV programs to find out if they think those things are true.

People don't like hearing things they already know.  Instead of telling somebody something they already know, keep the idea in your head, even if you think it's important.  Later you may find a chance to share it with somebody else.

If you do not like the birthday treats being offered, that's okay.  Just say, "No, thank you." Don't ask for a different treat.  There's probably only one kind.

When you check the clock repeatedly, others will think you are bored or late.  Try to glance at the clock only occasionally and try to do it very quickly.

Aren't these fabulous?  Even thinking and talking about these daily prompts so many conversations and opportunities for your child to share with you...."oh yeah, that reminds me of what happened today...." and it is just a quick little nudge for appropriate behavior on a daily basis! :)

Remember to enjoy your child!

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Hidden Curriculum Calendar

One of the things I love are page a day calendars. This time of year so many calendars have reminders to "reorder soon!" for the new year. Please consider checking out this calendar by Judy Endow for your older kids.

Entries range from "it is perfectly okay to rank your friends from best to worst, but not okay to share it with others" to "the purpose of dryer sheets is to take static out of your clothes. Using them is optional."

There is also a Hidden Curriculum calendar for younger kids as well. Those entries include "flavored lip balms for moisturizing your lips are not meant to be eaten" and "your teacher may express an opinion that is different from what your parents think. That's okay. An opinion is someone's point of view, and not everyone will agree with you or your parents."

I know some neuro typical folks who could use these calendars! :)

Anyway, we would sit this calendar near our dinner table and it became the conversation starter for some of our meals....we could share how adults also have to figure out social situations and one of the best fall back plans is MANNERS. If you have good manners, it can help you extract yourself from unfamiliar social situations.

When you let manners be your guide, then as parents/educators we are not constantly nagging about our rules....simply that good manners need to be followed.

"Good manners sometimes means simply putting up with other people's bad manners." (H. Jackson Brown, author of Life's Little Instruction Book)
So thanks for reading this post/blog and have a great day! ;)